36 weeks… it’s hard for me to believe! The beginning of this pregnancy went SO slow since I spent the majority of it hunched over a toilet. Now I’m starting to have weekly OB appointments and everything is feeling real. The nursery is complete (nursery reveal coming soon!), all baby clothes are washed and hung, freezer meals have been made, the house is clean, and now it’s just a waiting game! With my first (Jonas), I never felt nearly as uncomfortable as I feel right now. The lower pelvic pain and back pain has me waddling like a duck. It feels like every day I’m getting just a bit more uncomfortable. These days you can find me wearing my husband’s t-shirts, eating ice cream, peeing a lot in the night, and crying about pretty much everything. I know, I sound like such a joy, right?! Home stretch, my friends. I’m on the home stretch (or so I keep telling myself).
I can hardly believe that I’m in the third trimester already! At the same time though, it feels like I’ve been pregnant for years. It’s amazing how different the second pregnancy is from the first. With Jonas, I was so on top of getting the nursery ready, getting all of his clothes organized, and nesting in general. With this pregnancy, I’m literally just starting to work on the nursery… oops. I planned to start after I hit 20 weeks but chasing around a toddler all day has me absolutely exhausted. The second I hit the third trimester, it felt like all the energy drained from my body. I think it’s a combination of being a toddler mom and the summer heat/busyness of summer. I also feel like I have more aches and pains than I did with my first pregnancy but such is life as a preggo and I don’t intend to use this blog post to complain (I will say though that I’m not the girl that loves being pregnant haha). I want to share about some pregnancy related things that have been going on the past couple of weeks since well… I use this blog to share about what’s going on in my life. So here goes…
Summers in Minnesota are special. They are basically our reward for surviving yet another cold and treacherous winter (okay, maybe I’m being a bit dramatic… but only a bit). Summer means it’s finally time to enjoy the great outdoors! This summer feels extra special to me because it’s my last summer as a mama of one. All I want to do is soak up every single moment spending time with my little man, because life will soon be changing drastically for both of us (don’t get me wrong though, this mama still needs happy hour with the girls and breaks in general!). Something I struggle with is feeling like things on the home front need to be perfect in order for me to feel like I’m being successful as a stay at home mom. I think the house needs to be cleaned, a good meal needs to be cooked for dinner, and the laundry needs to be put away. Well, this summer my goal is to become slightly lazy and to stop caring so much about these things! Let me tell you why.
I can’t believe that we’re finally halfway there! Woohoo! The first trimester felt like it was never ending and now things are starting to speed along. It’s crazy to think that in a few months, we’ll be meeting our second baby boy! Lately I’ve been feeling like I’m on an emotional roller coaster. I’m an emotional soul to begin with so add pregnancy hormones to the mix and… cue the water works and all the feels.
If there’s one thing that’s totally surprised me about motherhood, it’s how much I’ve learned from this tiny human named Jonas (my son). I’m not talking about learning how to change diapers, removing week old stains from clothes, or figuring out how to sooth a screaming babe at 2:45 in the morning. I’m talking about learning things about life and growing as a person. This little boy has absolutely changed me in the most amazing way possible. Sure, he’s caused a lot of emotional breakdowns and made me want to rip my hair out at times… but I will forever be thankful for all the things he’s taught me.
As we all know, parenting has its fair share of challenges. Lately, I find myself thinking thoughts where my mindset is future oriented rather than present oriented. Whether the thought is “I can’t wait for Jonas to be past the tantrum phase where we can reason with him” or “life will be so much easier once he starts listening better”, I seem to unintentionally be wishing the days away. This attitude causes me to get wrapped up in the tough parts of motherhood rather than all of the magical moments that I get to experience on a daily basis.
Immediately after taking a pregnancy test and seeing those two lines, i had two thoughts race to my mind. First, I’M SO EXCITED!! I couldn’t wait to tell people that our dream of growing our family was coming true! My second thought was, I hope this pregnancy I’m not sick like I was with Jonas. About a week and a half later (around 5 1/2 weeks pregnant), my answer became clear when the morning sickness hit full force.
There are so many different baby monitor options out there and of course, they all claim to be the best. After trying different monitors and having disappointing experiences, we knew we had to give the Lollipop Baby Monitor a try. After a couple of weeks using it, I wanted to give you my review of this product.
Does it ever feel like your kids eat the same thing (i.e. goldfish and graham crackers) for snack time everyday? It can be tough to keep snacks interesting especially when it feels like snack time is happening alllll day long! Recently I could tell that my son Jonas was getting sick of eating the same things for snacks everyday, so, we decided to change things up! We tried some new healthy and easy snack recipes that were a hit with him, so I wanted to share with you all.
It’s post-Christmas. The kids have tummy aches from eating way too many sweets and you can’t see the floor in your house… there are toys EVERYWHERE. Now what? Do you just keep everything and live in total chaos until Christmas next year rolls around and add more to it? Personally, I’m going to challenge you to do the exercise I’m currently working on and I hope it gives you the sense of organization ( AKA joy!) that it gives me. Read on to learn what my strategy was for getting the toy situation under control.